Right off the bat, I like how she speaks more kindly to the dead than the living. Reading the next part, about how the clothing can be more important than the body itself, I related to too well and almost started crying. But I'm happy to read you capture that feeling because I haven't read it in a book before. I don't even have to read the rest to know I'd definitely like this book in my library (I'm going to finish it though of course).